Why do so many people misjudge the time it takes to achieve
goals? So many people are looking
for the quick fix or the “secret sauce” or the magical pill. If you truly want real world success,
if you are looking to attain big goals and you want to do it the right way,
simply BE OBSESSED WITH THE PROCESS.
This strategy can work for all areas of life. Whether you want to complete an Ironman, run a successful
business or achieve financial freedom, becoming obsessed with the process is
the key component.
Since my expertise is in fitness, let me explain…
Fitness is such a “I want it now” idea that it sometimes
drives me crazy. If I had a
quarter for every time someone asked me about some sort of a quick fix or
miracle program, I would be rich.
Over the past 5 years, I have logged over 4000 hours of training! I am not telling you this to brag, not
at all. Just explaining that it
takes years to achieve some success.
I still aspire to improve and change my fitness but I have become obsessed
with the process and that enables me to keep the motivation, resilience and
energy to train.
If you wanted weight loss, here is what I would advise…
I would encourage you to be obsessed with the process. Over the next 100 days, I want 85 of
those days to look like this:
Daily: 65 ounces of water – Don’t skip a day here!
Breakfast: 2 eggs, ½ avocado, small handful of blueberries
Snack #1: 20 almonds
Lunch: Chicken or Steak or Fish Salad
Snack #2: Apple w/1 tablespoon Peanut butter
Dinner: Lean protein (chicken, steak, fish, etc), salad or
other vegetable and a small handful of brown rice or potatoes
Once or twice a week, eat something you have been craving.
(pizza, chicken wings, ice cream etc.)
Now I want you to become obsessed with the process. Notice, I did not say, “be obsessed
with fitness.” That’s not the
point here. You go at your
pace. You do not need to be
perfect, just be consistent. Do
not look for a quick fix. Get to
the gym 3-5 days per week for at least 30 minutes. That equates to 42-70 workouts over the next 14 weeks. Mix in strength training and cardio
sessions. Do this every week for
the next 14 weeks. Do not weigh
yourself every week. Instead weigh
yourself every 25 days, just to keep yourself in check. But understand that when you become
obsessed with the process, the weight will come off. If weight is the only thing you are assessing, your progress
will be skewed. Out of the next 14
weeks, 12 of those weeks you need to do some weekly meal prepping. Simply, make a few extra chicken
breasts, boil up some eggs, chop up some veggies and make some extra brown
rice. Remember, if you are
obsessed with the process, the results will happen. If you are looking for a quick fix, you have the wrong plan.
See, this direction is tough for people to take because
there isn’t some day where you wake up and shout to the world, “Wow, I got lean
overnight!” or “Wow, my business
is a success overnight!” Or “Wow, where did all that money come from?” (unless
you won the lottery and we all know those odds) My point is that going after your goals is hard and if you
are not willing to become obsessed with the process and put in the daily grind,
for years, IT. WILL. NOT. HAPPEN.
I say all of this as I sit here now writing this article
that I am obsessed with the process.
I write this article knowing that it will serve other people. I do not write it to sell something or
become something. I understand
that this is part of the process that it takes to become an industry leader and
a servant of others. I am not
looking for a quick fix. I am in
it for the long haul and will continue the process for as long as I live.
Get the point?